Luminary Artist Spotlight: Summer Edition ft. Lizzie Rose

Choosing this next Luminary Artist Spotlight wasn’t difficult at all - Lizzie Rose was the obvious choice!

Lizzie is an insanely talented alternative fashion photographer - she razzles ’n dazzles with her electric colors, psychedelic vision and heart of pure gold.  She’s all about empowering people through her art and she’s not afraid to be simultaneously bold, playful and vulnerable in order to do so! For those of you interested in exploring creative realms of photography or exploring the outward & inward radical expression of self - read on because Lizzie is your babe!! She is on the rise and I hope you find her message as enlightening, inspiring, an activating as I know her to be!

Name: Lizzie Rose

Age: 27 (Today!)

Sun/Moon/Rising: Leo, Leo, Sagittarius

Current Location: San Francisco

Website: www.instagram.com/lizzierosemedia

What is your artistic background?

I took a few journalism and photography courses in college, but really got started once I figured out I could cover festivals as press. These festivals were where I was feeling drawn to, so I began covering as many as I could. From there it really grew into a focus on the vendors and my preference for fashion and lifestyle photography had the opportunity to blossom. On a broader scale, I’ve felt like a performer for most of my life. Growing up I was in all of the plays, musicals, improv troupes, and beyond... constantly doing something centered around expression of the self. How very Leo of me.

What are your main art mediums?

I mostly operate as a photographer and videographer behind the camera, but I believe that art comes in many forms. John Lennon and Yoko Ono once said that everything you do is art, from how you dress to the way in which you act at the grocery store. I am inspired by putting together outfits, dancing, comedy, and so much more. When you see all of life as art, it gets so much juicier and way more exciting.

At what point in your life did you claim your identity as an "Artist"?

I never used to identify as an artist. I grew up thinking that being an artist was very specific- it was a word reserved for those with divine talents in drawing or singing. I’d say after I graduated college and started really hustling on my photography career was when I first started to feel comfortable with the word. Deciding I was an artist was the act of deciding I was worthy of producing and being paid for my craft. I wake up and decide that I am an artist every day of my life. It is a way of life, and if the word feels right to you- I believe you should use it.

What are your biggest influences?

Color... laughter, hugs, crying, being nervous before big opportunities, things that intimidate me, good lighting, being around friends and family that I love, music that makes me feel all the things, cultural differences, confidence, femininity, the embodiment of the goddess. I am incredibly sensitive and moved by the energies around me.

Who are your favorite artists?

I take a constant flow of inspiration from the artists around me. There are so many that it’s hard to pick my favorites. I listen to music literally all day and night so many artists are a huge inspiration to my work. I’m incredibly inspired by the individual artist, designer, photographer, and beyond.

What does your work aim to say overall?

You look good on you. Be empowered, feel sexy, celebrate yourself! Life is too short to not radiate that ooey gooey divine essence baby! Love yourself, love others... because this all ends.

What are your struggles as an artist?

I’d say one of my main struggles is to stay organized and efficient- sometimes I get so inspired and passionate that hundreds of ideas swirl through my existence. Most of them are really good ideas- but more often than not they will stay a mere thought of what could be. As an artist you really need that follow through... either a team member or a part of your dynamic personality that steps up and says, “Okay Lizzie... here are the steps you need to take to make that magical idea happen and you need to have these deliverables completed to do so.” Sometimes that part of me isn’t as vocal as I need her to be.

What is your favorite part about the creation process?

My favorite part of the creation process is that moment where everything clicks and you realize that you’re part of something magical - the model and I sort of slip into a flow state where they are anticipating exactly how I need them to move- I often say that modeling for me is a lot like dancing - the best part of the process is when the muse enters the room.

What is your favorite piece of artwork you've created?

This is like being asked to name my favorite child! I’d likely name any of the work I’ve created with my muse Paris Sinclair. Also I think any experience that is emotional and meaningful to the subject reminds me why I do this in the first place. Also anything I’ve created abroad over the past year in London, Berlin, and Tokyo. Okay I can’t pick a favorite! Life is my favorite!

Name a big dream of yours that you hope to come true in your lifetime:

I hope to travel for extended periods of time exploring the world and empowering artist communities by bringing opportunity and resources to different areas.

What characteristics do you envision your higher self to have (physical and non-physical)?

I envision her to be connected and powerful. She’s empathetic and intuitive and acts with passion and conviction. Wherever she goes she leaves behind clouds of purple smoke and inspiration. That would be rad.

A quote/quotes that you deeply resonate with/inspire you:

“Fortune favors the bold” and “For if the muse exists, she does not whisper to the untalented.” Also, “A pity party is still a party” No matter what happens, you can find humor in reality.

What advice can you give to those just starting out in their craft?

Get out there and do it as much as you can! Work with as many people that inspire you as possible. Reach out to potential mentors and people doing what you want to do. Understand that failure and rejection are just part of the path and fearlessly make your art baby! Decide every day you are worthy of your path and follow it with relentless passion. Figure out what true self care looks like for you specifically and learn to practice it regularly.

Thank you, Lizzie and Happy Birthday Beautiful!! xoxo

Reflecting on Death and Life

This week marks the 1 year anniversary of Dave’s crossing over. 

I’ve sat down to write multiple times over the last few days and nothing has really been coming forth. I feel some internal pressure to publicly post about him, and about my experience over the last year. Mainly because #1 I love talking about Dave when given the opportunity, and #2 I think this is a wonderful platform to connect with and help others in some way through sharing my experience, and that supports my healing process in a big way too. Although in this case, sometimes it feels silly trying to convey how I feel through words, because they barely begin to scratch the surface of the story that my heart wants to tell.

I’ll try anyway.

I never understood why people honored and recognized lost loved ones on the anniversary date of their death.  Birthdays seemed more important, we should be celebrating their life, right?  Why would you want to remember their death? But upon this one year anniversary, I’m beginning to understand. 

Over the last few days I’ve been flooded with memories of this time last year.  Reliving the memories of receiving the call to come to the hospital, waiting all night and into the morning with uncertainty and helplessness in the ICU waiting room, speaking with multiple nurses, making lots of phone calls, mentally preparing myself for the worst, getting the word from the doctors they’ve done everything they can to keep his body alive but it’s just getting worse, tearfully accepting it, holding his hand as his heart beat for the last time, being surrounded by loved ones, holding space & being held, feeling devastated/relieved/angry/abundant/full of love all at once, sorting through his belongings with his parents, planning his celebration of life, writing up a eulogy I didn’t think I’d have to write for decades, making new beautiful friends, learning about the countless lives Dave had a major impact on, feeling inspired & empowered to somehow continue his legacy, sitting in ceremony, just wanting to lie in bed all day, screaming and crying in my car, and wondering how life was ever going to be “normal” again.  

Talking about death is so taboo.  Yet, death is an inevitable and vital part of life.  It’s a major transition for all, and it asks to be honored and reflected upon. A death anniversary feels like an important time to allow space for these feelings, emotions and memories to come back up to the surface. It’s a lot to unpack, and even a year later (or 50 years later), there is always room for more processing and integrating of this event into the never ending unfolding story of our lives. 

I think just allowing space for this, even without necessarily trying to make more intellectual sense of it, is enough to support our ongoing evolution and healing process.  I had an intimate gathering at my home this weekend, just to talk, love on Dave and on each other, and allow this space. It was epic.

I suppose we also commemorate the death anniversary because it’s the last (and potentially the most profound) impact that a person has on us, for better or worse.  An impact that transpires either from the way the fatality happened, or a certain ripple effect caused by the disappearance of the person from our lives…or in Dave’s case, both.

It truly is the start of a new chapter; a rebirth/birthday of its own kind. I can honestly say that Dave’s death and the aftermath of it was (and will continue to be) as equally as profound for me as the experiences of transformation I shared with him when he was alive.

It marked the date of my becoming the sole leader and decision maker of Soul Palace.  It’s the date I lost my best friend. The date I lost my creative companion. The date beginning my path towards sovereignty.  The friendshipversaries of many people I connected deeply with for the first time, and the start of even deeper friendships with those already formed.  It was the date of a new “normal.”  A more empathetic, more patient, more present, less hasty, more intentional, more aware, stronger, kinder, softer way of living.  Despite the circumstances, in this date I find gratitude.  It’s forced me to shift into a person that I’m proud of, and into a person I know Dave would be proud of, too.

Other random memories from our time together have been popping up in my mind.  Mostly happy, some painful, all deeply beautiful.  Some of you may recall in my blog post from last November, I mentioned that a phrase frequented under my breath had become “Damnit, Dave.”  As I’ve let go of the future memories we won’t share together, it has recently transitioned into “I miss you, Dave.”

I just miss him. I just want him around.  I just wanna cuddle. I just wanna lay on his sheepskin rug under the stars and dream up our future.  I just wanna be in awe of his being. I just wanna casually eavesdrop on him talking to some stranger about his new radical theory about the meaning of existence and how everything that is happening to us is for our highest benefit.

That is one thing I will hold on to, thanks to him: Pronoia: “Describes a state of mind that is the opposite of paranoia. Whereas a person suffering from paranoia feels that persons or entities are conspiring against them, a person experiencing pronoia feels that the world around them conspires to do them good.”

I know he would want me to take and make the best from this situation and hold out for the deeper meaning of it all - and trust that the most potent blessings are in the hardest lessons. It could take the rest of my life or beyond, but I know it will be worth the journey.

xox Bailey

A special message for you (yeah YOU), from Dave:

“There is such wonder awaiting you. There are so many beautiful adventures and so much magic yet to be. Can you keep your heart open to what is coming towards you, without surrendering your experience of this moment by becoming too future oriented? You see, there is magic in this moment too. There is something arising within you, out of the depths of your being. In this process there is a shift in environment both internal and external. A fertility is being stimulated.

This is your time to play with that fertility. To conceive, create and embark upon the process of transformation with an open heart and mind. You may not know where it is all going to lead. All you need to know is that it will be wonderful and exactly, perfectly, what is needed. Beyond that, allow the energy of fertile growth and abundance that now flow so naturally and richly within you and around you, simply to be.

You are a big soul and with that often comes big dreams. You might worry that you want too much out of life. Perhaps you think that you are only capable of small dreams. This oracle is guiding you to remember that there are stages of creation. A house cannot be built without the flooring. No matter how beautiful the stained glass windows you plan to install are, the walls need to be up first! Your big life dreams are a work in progress. Just like you.

If you have been working on healing something within you, started a new creative project or just taken on a new job or relationship and feel that although you are getting some results, you are impatient for more, doubt that you can continue or ever find the “zone” or become proficient in the situation at hand, then this oracle comes as a reinforcement. You are doing well! That which is worthwhile takes time to build. Celebrate each success, even the small ones. You are creating something of worth. Be patient, keep going and trust.

This oracle comes with a special message. You have recently completed a cycle or level of manifestation and are transitioning into the next level of experience. Like a big fish leaving the small pond and feeling like a rather small fish in a bigger pond, there will be some “getting used to it” time needed as you find your way. This will add to what you have already done and bring valuable expansion to your realization of your abilities as well as many new relationships and opportunities to help you go further on your journey. What you are in the process of creating will benefit from this stage of your process. Whether your creation is simply your sacred life path, a particular creative work, or an actual child, there is a positive and constructive energy that is unfolding for you now, to boost this process and carry you further along the way. Do you dare to dream and to believe in your dream until it manifests? Even if nay-sayers challenge you? Of course you do, sacred rebel!

This oracle brings you guidance. You are going to attract whatever is needed to complete your work in progress and bring it to fruition. Remain open to receive and trust in the unfolding of your life experiences. Do not turn away. All of the necessary elements are coming together. Allow this integration to occur so that you can manifest your dreams.”*

~ Alana Fairchild, Power of Attraction, Sacred Rebels Oracle

“Divine Fem Zen Den” Design Board

Hi All!

I‘ve been having a lot of fun with Photoshop lately and felt inspired to make this lush, feminine space Design Board. I found this gorgeous Bungalow Rose Lonerock Aqua/Pink Area Rug on Wayfair and knew it would make a perfect focal point for a space, so I started from there and let the other pieces fall into place!

Aaand it’s not just a made-up, pretty space - this entire room can actually come to life!

I created a key below with all 19 of the items in this design board so you can recreate this scene in your own home :)

Divine Fem Zen Den Design Board by The Space Queen

Would you wanna hang out here?!

Click on any image below and it will take you directly to the corresponding product page!

Sun & Moon Wall Decal

Circa 78 Designs Framed Wall Art

Geometric Rainbow Glass Terrarium

UO Birdy Side Table

JoyBird Royale Blush Lewis Sectional

UO Round Pintuck Pillow - Lavender

UO Round Pintuck Pillow - Light Green

Orgone Pyramid

The Threads of Fate Oracle Deck

UO Ria Coffee Table

Rainbow Aura Quartz Amethyst Sphere

Vintage Iridescent Carnival Glass Dish

Bungalow Rose Lonerock Aqua/Pink Area Rug

Circa 78 Designs Rectangular Pillow

Circa 78 Designs Rectangular Pillow

UO Modular Triangle Side Table

Circa 78 Designs Folding Stool

Iridescent Globe Table Lamp

Hanging Planter - Mona

What do you think? What’s your favorite piece? Would you have added anything? I’d love to hear your feedback!

ALSO - Did you know I can create a personalized Design Board for you and your space, too?! Send me a DM, drop me an email, or leave a comment and I’d love to chat with you about options and see how we can best work together :)

For more info contact: bailey@thespacequeen.space or fill out the contact form HERE

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New Luminary Artist Series!!

Featured Artist: Alexis Rakun

I’m starting a new series on my blog called “Luminary Artists” which will spotlight a different artist every few months or so and I’m REALLY excited to introduce you all to so many incredibly inspiring humans that the world of Instagram has revealed to me! The beings chosen really stand out to me as creatively influential people who not only make incredible art, but have a badass message to share.

The definition of Luminary: “A person who inspires or influences others, especially one prominent in a particular sphere.”

I chose the title Luminary Artist because these creatives have a special way of influencing and connecting with their audiences.  Of course, through their visual art, but also through their captions, comments and stories found on social media.  My hope for this new venture is to give you a glimpse of the inner workings and lifestyles of these imaginative creatures and activate newfound curiosity and motivation to explore creativity more frequently in your own lives.

I asked Alexis Rakun to be my first featured artist because she has consistently blown me away with her artistic vision and consistently positive and empowering messages within every piece she releases. I’ve been lucky enough to buy a few pieces of her work and proudly hang them in my home! It takes a special eye to appreciate the kind of detail that goes into her work, and a special heart to uplift up the viewers. Let’s get to it!

Name: Alexis Rakun 

Age: 24

Signs: Gemini Sun. Capricorn Moon. Aries Rising.

Location: Texas

Website: Just my instagram @alexisrakun for now!

What is your artistic background?
I first started off drawing insects as a child. I grew up in a rural area by a creek. As I grew into my teens, I started becoming fascinated with drawing human faces. I especially loved eyes (still do lol.) My art became "trippy" and very expressive. A 2-year long depression I had around the ages of 14-16 heavily influenced my art. As I got into my twenties I found myself constantly wanting to paint Goddesses and powerful women. I felt I was really getting into touch with my feminine side. These days, my art seems to reflect my mental reality in regards to what I wish to put out into the world; the ways I can incorporate personal lessons and truths in a visually stimulating piece. I have been doing what I call "Art Quotes" which is essential the consolidation of words and illustrations. I have always been writer. At times, perhaps even more so than an Artist. I used to make my mom drop me off early in High School so I could use the quiet library to type my poems. lol. Always been a romantic.

Who are your favorite artists? 
The living and breathing Artists I see every day pouring out their hearts and souls. Especially all the beautiful Artists I've discovered on Instagram.

What does your work aim to say overall?
Stay inspired. Question everything. Empower yourself. Find the lessons in everything. Love the shit out of yourself. Do good. Stay curious. Seek the magic.

What are your struggles as an artist?
Over-thinking my pieces. It stifles creativity and decreases production. Also, Art Theft online. The internet is not in favor of protecting Artists right now. It's a risk every time I post something. But I do it anyways. Because in the end, my Art is not about me. It's about everyone. It's for everyone. So I let it go and try to have faith that it will reach who it needs to. I like to think that the Universe uses me as a channel to send people messages.

What is your favorite part about the creation process?
Connecting with spirit. Entering the state of flow.

Name a big dream of yours that you hope to come true in your lifetime:
Publish an illustrated novel featuring a female hero's journey.

What are your main art mediums?
Acrylic paint, Ink Markers, Guitar, iPad and Apple Pencil 

At what point in your life did you claim your identity as an “Artist”? 
When I literally couldn't stop making Art. Age 15ish. I used to get in trouble at school all the time because I just. couldn't. stop. I had a lot of unanswered question in my mind at that point. It seemed the expressive and free-flowing drawing somehow soothed my over-active mind (still like this today but I've chilled out a lot. Thank goodness.)

Who are your biggest influences?
Frida Kahlo #1 for obvious reasons. Like her vulnerability and expressionism. Also, Salvador Dali. Even though he was a total creep. Facts. But I got the divine fortune of visiting his self-designed museum in Spain last year. It was so intense I had to take breaks. It's an overwhelming experience being inside the contents of someone else's mind. Especially his. I literally felt nauseous at points. But even still, it was wildly inspiring. I am more influenced by his character though. Less his art. He inspires me to be authentic, creative, rule-breaking, unapologetic, and unstoppable. My other artistic influences are Walt Disney. I am a total Disney geek and worship all of their work. I used to want to be an animator as a child. Still kinda do actually. My writing influences are Paulo Coehlo of "The Alchemist" and Lewis Carrol of "Alice In Wonderland". My musical influences are Waylon Jennings (old 70's country singer and guitarist) and Etta James. She sings the popular "At Last."

What is your favorite piece of artwork you’ve created?
"If Your Life Was A Book... Would You Feel Inspired By It?" It helps me to remember the big picture. And take actions that align with my highest visions. Not to get too consumed in small details and events.

What characteristics do you envision your higher self to have (physical and non-physical)?
I envision her as a powerful luminescent being. Radiating wisdom, light, magic, and beauty. A visible third-eye of course and all purple eyes.

A quote (or quotes) that deeply resonates with you:
"As is your desire, so is your will. As is your will, so is your deed. As is your deed, so is your destiny." - Bhagavad Gita

"Whether you think you can or you think you can't. You are always right." - Henry Ford

What advice do you have to those just starting out in their craft? 
Be patient. Don't be too controlling with your vision. Let it unfold and change if it seems right. Small steps, greats leaps. 

I Forgot Why I Was Doing This...

When was the last time you walked into a space that completely shifted the way you were feeling?

Did you notice the positive, uplifting (or negative, draining) effect that it had on your inner reality?

Have you ever imagined what it would feel like to wake up in a room that rejuvenates your soul, inspires your creativity and reflects your unique magic back to you...every single day?!

where i wake up 😍

Space creation is truly powerful.

I love the idea process, the envisioning, the creative flow, the product sourcing; I love researching, dreaming big and wildly, mixing and matching, experimenting, and most of all I love imagining what will go on in the space as I’m creating it and giddily giggling to myself knowing that all sorts of magic will ensue upon completion.

I fully recognize in my heart that helping women curate their personal dream space is my dharma. But…why?  Why do I deeply feel that it’s so important to help the world in this way? I literally forgot why…until recently.

Nicole’s Room when we first started

Last year I had the absolute pleasure of working with a client by the name of Nicole.  When she first contacted me, she was feeling really stagnant in her life, as well as lost, uninspired and knew something needed to change.  She sent me photos of her space, and as we had our initial session we uncovered the specifics as to what she was looking to feature in her room (as in art, furniture, vibe, color, emotion, etc.) as well as focus on what lights her up and how we can incorporate that more into her space.  She also felt a bit overwhelmed by all the items in her room and was looking to bring more organization.

After the beautiful process of setting clear intentions, decluttering, mood boards, art curation, self discovery, bedroom styling and implementation, Nicole sent me a heartfelt testimonial that read:

“I just want to say thank you so so sooo much, when I stumbled onto your Insta I NEVER thought in a million years it would kick start something within me!

You have quite literally changed my life and shook my inner world!

Because of your artistic vision and your help in creating such a sacred space for me I realized I want to be an artist! Specifically an embroidery/textiles artist!

I’ve changed sooo much since I first started working with you!

Literally everything: my room, my clothes, my hair, even my attitude.

It’s like the gates that were closing off the creativity, love, courage, and life just broke and it’s all pouring out of me. I’ve found something that gives me so much joy and happiness and a way to express all the dreamy and sometimes nonsensical thoughts in my head.

I feel so much freer and have a much stronger sense of self than I did before you and your rainbows entered my life!

I was having possibly the worst day at work and felt like shit needed to change when I first contacted you and it’s insane what has transpired outwardly and inwardly because of it. So thank you!”

...I literally burst into tears.  Her words felt so real and so familiar to me.  

Nicole’s room After the transformation

I was taken back to 2011.  A few years after college, I left San Diego and moved home to live at my Mom’s house in the Bay Area.  I was SO lost, and so confused about where my life was taking me.

For years it was an endless and painstaking search for what my life purpose was.  What the hell was I going to do with my life?

I felt sad and pathetic about living at my Mom’s house in my early mid 20s, despite her welcoming my presence with open arms (thanks, Mama).  I was done with college...I thought I was supposed to have figured all of this out by now?! (Side note: If any of you are in that situation, it helps to remember that there are SO many people in this world who don’t have family to fall back on - this perspective really allowed space for me to hold more gratitude for my undesired “situation”).  Long story short - I lived there on and off for the next few years, saved up money, and in 2015, I moved into an amazing intentional community in San Francisco.

Before: My bedroom in 2016 when I moved in

My room was small yet cozy.  After years of purposely not decorating my room at my Mom’s house (to make it super special once I did have my own spot), I decided to fully make it MY sanctuary and poured my love and intention and hard earned savings into styling the space in a way that was unique and special to me.  I had earned it!

After: my bedroom where i became the space queen

I finally felt “at home.” It was in that room and in that house that I discovered my passion for space creation.

In doing so I became “Space Queen” deemed by my incredibly supportive and encouraging housemates, and also co-created Soul Palace, my immersive experience art installation, with Dave.  I had never felt so alive, connected, expanded, seen, inspired, expressed, creative and activated as I did after curating my space! It was totally life changing. My passion and gifts rose to the surface, my heart flourished, and my sense of self and purpose strengthened.  

A few months later in 2016 (2 years before I even created my Instagram account), when I decided that space creation was my chosen path, I sat down and wrote this mission statement to give my passion some grounded purpose:

"I have this crazy idea to inspire women to connect with their authentic highest selves through self expression, creativity, intuition and vision to create the space of their dreams that makes them feel more at home and alive than they have ever felt in their whole lives (in their spaces and in their beings). My mission is to ignite the fire of their passions, their well being, their freedom, to dream big dreams, and make their wildest fantasies a reality.

I envision my brand looking whimsy, inviting, light, unique and holographic rainbow.  My visual brand will be a representation of the inner workings of my heart, soul, and insanely creative and inspirational highest self.  It will inspire women to realize that they are incredibly creative also and have many gifts to offer the world (whether they realize it or not); that these gifts can begin to show themselves in their very own homes, as they did mine."

Fast forward to Nicole’s message - I realized my mission statement had come TRUE!  I literally forgot what I was truly doing all of this for and Nicole’s words brought me back.  Her experience is exactly the kind of life changing magic that I knew I was destined to be in co-creation with.

I’m here to give you permission to bring your wild inner rainbow out into your space and into your life!  This is NOT about surrounding yourself with superficial expensive material things. It is about enjoying the material world in a way that lights you UP and serves as a reflection of the inner rainbow that is inside of you, so that you can go out in the world and light others up through your unique, heartfelt, and inspired authenticity.

If this resonates with you, and you’re curious to learn more about working 1:1 with me to seriously up level your space and your life - send me a message at bailey@thespacequeen.space.

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Sovereign 2019

This recent New Years Eve, for the first time since I was probably 17, I stayed in.  No parties, no alcohol, no fireworks.  Just a cozy home, some tea, and lingering Christmas tree lights. I stayed bundled up with my babe Elessar and we instead chose to spend some time reflecting on 2018 so we could release what we were ready to let go of, and allow space for the new. 

We used a wonderfully comprehensive “Review, Reflect, Release” workbook created by Evyan Whitney, and the last section was all about stepping into the new year. One of the first prompts asked what “my word or phrase for 2019 will be.”  Usually this kind of question takes me a bit of time to think about…but immediately the word “Sovereign” popped into my head (thanks to Ele). 

Sovereign (adj.) : possessing supreme or ultimate power.

it’s not a groundbreaking word, but it speaks to me.  Especially with Dave no longer here, as someone who I leaned on frequently for support in many areas of my life. I feel like he showed me what I’m capable of and a glimpse of what’s possible, and here I am, starting this new year, walking on my own two feet carrying out this journey of art and passion and space expression that I began with him.

it me.

I played as Dave’s muse for a photoshoot a while back and I think this photo he captured channels a sovereign vibe. 

Clearly, she’s the ruler of her life.  The ruler of her domain.  The ruler of her space, her body, her mind, her heart, her spirit.  Nobody can fuck with her.  She has a deep knowing of who she is and lives out her divine mission in every moment.  She trusts herself and she trusts the universe. She is kind and open hearted to all but stays fiercely true to her boundaries.

I feel that’s what being a queen is truly about.  It’s not about having power over others; it’s about possessing complete and total power over herself - spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, financially.  Welcoming and thriving in interconnectedness but being grounded in her autonomy. This is what I’d like to step into more of in 2019.

Like I’ve said before, the point of my space design is to show that we are all the Space Queens of our own universes, and we should create space for ourselves that makes us feel absolutely regal and majestic and fired up on life (physically and metaphysically; however that looks and feels to you). 

It's about owning yourself, owning what you like, owning your authenticity and uniqueness and weirdness and inspiring others to do the same

...because we are all infinitely powerful and cosmically royal beings lucky enough to live on this magnificently beautiful material plane…so why not own that shit?

What’s your word for 2019?

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These Are a Few of My Favorite Things! - YogaOutlet.com Gift Guide Edition

The holidays are upon us and YogaOutlet.com is here to help !!

It’s a one stop shop for picking out holiday surprises for your favorite high vibin’ crystal bitches.

The babes at YO were so kind to offer me a peek at their gift guide and sent me a few of their goodies to try out in person !! Oh yeaaaahhhh.

Here are my picks:

1. Magic Carpet Rainbow Traditional Yoga Mat - 70" 6mm Extra Thick

ARE YOU KIDDING ME. My own personal RAINBOW MAGIC CARPET (Yoga Mat)?!? I just couldn’t pass this baby up. I adore this whimsy spin off of a gorgeous Persian style rug - At first glance it actually looks like a rug but you’ll soon realize it functions beautifully as a high quality, durable yoga mat! It now resides in my bedroom so I can just hop out of bed and do a sun salutation whenever my solar friend beckons me. Not to mention it’s thick and grips my fingers and toesies juuuust right. I love it I love it I love it.

2. dZi Crown Chakra Mini Meditation Bowl Box

Is this not the most adorable singing bowl ya ever did see?! This lil bebe from dZi Handmade was hand-cast and hand-tuned all the way in Nepal! It may be tiny, but the sound it makes is POTENT. You can get a sample of the reverberations here.

3. SoulMakes Agate Geode Candle Holder

I loooove playing around with lighting and when I’m able to combine candlelight with crystals my heart feels a special kind of warm and fuzzy. These purple agate geode candle holders from Soul Makes give a different vibe than the traditional selenite candle holders or Himalayan salt lamps. They sparkle in the sun, get lit in the dark and they come in 4 different colors too!

4. The Moon Deck Card Set

I’m an avid collector of tarot and oracle decks and I’ve been wanting to get my paws on The Moon Deck for a while now! The deck of 44 comes in a gorgeous hand-crafted wooden box, giving it a super special feel - I honestly think all decks should come in such a safe guarded way. The cards seamlessly glide through my hands when shuffled and the messages are clear, loving, and concise. It comes with a guidebook that gives straightforward and actionable suggestions to help you gain more insight into your situation at hand.

Thank you friends at Yoga Outlet!! For more wonderful holiday gifting ideas just hop on over to YogaOutlet.com and peep their epic sanctuary stylin’ selection.

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My Cyber Monday Wishlist 💕💻

Society6.com and UrbanOutfitters.com are having the most dreamy sales for Cyber Monday!! I love both of their decor selections and if I had the space (and the extra $$)…these treasures would be at the top of my CM wishlist:

Heat Signature Rectangular Pillow

Nanoleaf Rhythm Modular Lighting System Kit

SACRILEGE Coffee Table

SACRILEGE Floor Pillow

Unicorn Tears Throw Pillow

star blaster Rectangular Pillow

Heart Shell Table Lamp

Pastel Goth Crystal Cluster Pattern Pink & Blue Window Curtains

Man On The Moon Incense Holder + Ashtray Set

R U MINE ? Counter Stool

Pippa Sectional Sofa

Girly Pastel Goth Witch Pattern Credenza

Caged Metal Hanging Air Plant Holder

Iridescent Globe Table Lamp

Hello Neon Sign

Society6.com

UrbanOutfitters.com

Dedicated to Dave

Photo by Alexandra Malek of Dandy lions Media

It’s been four months since my best friend, Dave, passed away.  I started creating this website just before that, and had to put it on hold for a few months to heal, integrate and transition.  I honestly don’t know if I’ve “healed” from the absence of his physical presence.  It’s more like that I’ve just acclimated to him not being around.  I think about him daily, and although the tears have stopped for the most part, I’d say around once per day I find myself muttering “…damnit Dave.”

I say this under my breath when I recall a particular beautiful/insane experience we shared together and remember he’s not here to delight in the absurdity of it with me, or when I realize I can’t text him to see what he thinks about a new silly idea I have for Soul Palace that I’m sure would tickle him pink, or when I become aware we won’t be driving the UHaul together down to Desert Hearts for our 4th year since Soul Palace’s birth. 

So far people are right when they say that the pain of losing a loved one doesn’t go away, but it does get easier. Now that my website is finished, I’m truly able to reflect that this is evidence I actually am moving through this experience.  It’s proof to me that I’m okay and it’s going to be okay.

We only knew each other for less than 3 years, but Dave was by far the most influential person in my adult life.  I wouldn’t be who I am without him; I especially wouldn’t be The Space Queen. He lit my soul on fire and was the catalyst for my creative and spiritual awakening.  He was the first person who REALLY encouraged me to follow my heart and follow my highest excitement, whenever possible (preferably all the time).  He made me feel like I was amazing at creating spaces, that the universe is infinitely abundant and magical, and just in general encouraged me to believe that I could be, do or have anything I desired if I set my heart to it.  I feel incredibly lucky to have experienced such a bright, beaming light of never ending support and encouragement, right by my side at all times. I think for many of us sometimes all we need is that one person to affirm our path, and it’ll keep us on course with a particular energy and confidence we didn’t have previously.

And the thing is, he didn’t just say things superficially to make people feel better, he REALLY meant them.  He meant them from the deepest depths of his soul. I knew this from the countless times he would continue to rave about someone after they had left the room. He impacted so many in this way - he could see you for your raw beauty, gifts and talents and made sure that you felt seen when you were with him.  He asked you to dream as big as you could, and then did what he could to help you get those dreams in motion.

I don’t understand why he had to leave so early. 

In eternal gratitude for the ways he shaped me into becoming the person that writes these words, I’ve decided I’m dedicating my life’s work to Dave.  

And what does that mean exactly? For me, it means I’m going to consciously bring his spirit to life however it makes sense through my spaces and through my art.  He brought me to life, so I’ll bring his spirit to life whenever possible. I’ll create spaces that touch the soul, that encourage people to live an unabashedly authentic life as he did, and to follow their dreams fearlessly.  I’ll strive to create spaces that make you feel a certain kinda way and have a lasting effect on you, just like how Dave and only Dave could make me feel certain intense feelings exclusive to his presence. It means spreading wild colors, glitter beards and $2 bills around.  It means sharing a message of love, and loving hard.  It means providing space to connect to that inner child inside that wants to be seen and expressed and played with. It means encouraging a life filled with passion, a voice that speaks truth, and an abundantly giving heart.  There’s so much more to it, but I’ll just have to see how he manifests.

Whatever art I create, whatever space I curate, I’ll make sure you live on through it in some way, Dave.

xo Bailey

Here. We. Go.

HEY WORLD!

Here it is. Here I am. This is it. No turning back now.

Puttin’ mahself out there. Steppin’ out on that ledge. Takin’ the leap.

It me.

My first blog post. I’m kinda scared. And I feel insecure. I don’t think of myself as a great writer. But sometimes…I have things to say. And share. So I’m gonna say ‘em. And share ‘em. Right here. And hopefully someone, somewhere, will connect with my words and those words will impact them in a positive way, which may inspire them to impact others in a beneficial way. ya know, like a cute little ripple in a pond. or maybe even one that turns into a wave being ridden by a dog on a surf board and carried out into the ocean. or a rainbow tsunami of infinite love and inspiration and magic and healing across the cosmos. but a pond ripple will do just fine. that is my simple hope.

also I know that I started out correctly capitalizing the first word of each sentence and then I stopped towards the end. you can expect the unexpected around here.

xo Bailey tha space quayne